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Post by Amoroso on Jul 4, 2007 21:11:14 GMT
Dearest Juliet,
Well, boogers on him then. You deserve way, way better. But, I , too, have a feeling that things are not over with him yet. We are here in cyber space, hoping to help you carry some of the hurt. I am wondering if some of this is related to the money business?
Thank you for checking in to report the manifestation.
This Saturn-Neptune pass has revealed some things to me about my relationship with my husband that needed to come out of the closet. Interesting how I can see how the dance of Saturn-Neptune has brought this closer and closer. And if you do the tough work of Saturn you will eventually bear some lasting rewards. This opposition is on my Solar Return AC/DC and I am actually glad! I think it will also bring me clarification with C, with whom I have ever so briefly been in touch with again in the past week.
As my Italian mother says, "Corraggio!"
Love, Amoroso
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Post by Juliet on Jul 5, 2007 20:14:39 GMT
Amoroso! In touch with C? Come on! You write it down so calmly, as if it is the most ordinary thing in the world. I suppose the changes in your relationship are positive?
X has fully panicked yesterday and even more today and wants to get in touch with me, but I can't. I just can't talk to him. My panic has a very calm face. Love, Juliet
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Post by Juliet on Jul 10, 2007 22:43:56 GMT
Hi! Just a short notice. We had a first talk the 6th, and an hour within Mercury going direct (and Eros opp composite Sun, and transiting Sun on it) he asked me early this morning if I want to give him another chance, and to tell him what I need to regain my trust in him. He is desperately sorry. We might be able to work things out in a very constructive way, the love is there, but I still feel the shock in my body... This isn't 'over' yet, although our panic is gone for now.
Love, Juliet
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Post by Aphrodite on Jul 11, 2007 3:59:01 GMT
Great news, Juliet! I wish you both the best and hope you grow stronger together by working through this. Good luck!
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Post by sopranokris on Jul 11, 2007 5:58:58 GMT
I'm glad to hear you two are talking. It's hard to trust someone when your original faith in them has been damaged, but it *IS* definitely possible to work through it and be even stronger together than you were before.
It's hard to let go of the past and completely forgive someone and give them a second chance. It's VERY difficult, and I don't envy you your position right now. You should make clear to him that everything isn't going to be OK overnight. You need time to completely go through the cycle of rebuilding your faith in him again (if that's what you decide to do) and he needs to give you the space you need.
I wish you the best and no matter what happens, remember...there's always a REASON why things like this happen. It can either bring you closer together or tear you apart. Think of it as a lesson. (I know, I know....easier said than done!)
Hugs!
--Kristin
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Post by Juliet on Jul 11, 2007 22:17:38 GMT
Yes, Kirstin, that's exactly what I told him today, it can either bring us closer together or tear us apart. I really don't know at this moment. I know I love him, and want to be with him. I told him I may get mad at him another hundred times. Today was a first one. But what gives me hope is how he eventualy handled all this, and that he acknowledges that we need to start as two new people. I've also learnt some new skills. I cannot run away from nasty feelings and premonitions and have got to face them in me and in him. We had a very open talk tonight, very honest, no idealism and expectations. A test! Love, and thanks to you both! Juliet
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Post by 3rdhousenorth on Jul 16, 2007 23:18:41 GMT
Juliet, I'm happy to hear that he's come around. It sounded like this was a "real thing" so I'm so glad that he realizes that. I've seen this happen where guys get cold feet about a relationship and break things off, but then they come around and the relationship is much stronger. Glad you've also learned some things from it. Relationships are not easy!!
Hugs, 3rdhousenorth
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Post by Juliet on Jul 17, 2007 11:10:10 GMT
Dear 3rd, Thank you! A week after his coming around things seem even stronger, yes. We will be on a vacation this coming week, will spend some time in France... Relationships are not easy and easy all at once, as long as we live by the day. Love, Juliet
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