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Post by Kim Falconer on Dec 20, 2008 20:20:34 GMT
3rdhousenorth, I love the way you responded to this situation. It's a wonderful model--you thanked him for being clear and you made a choice to look after yourself. It's a good combination, one that will bring you what you want!
I have a fab technique for date manifesting that you may like. Email me?
Not really off topic as we might discern his ascendant by the way he initiates endings. What do you think?
Amp up the self-love and focus on the things that are working really well in your life!
Warm wishes, Kim
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Post by 3rdhousenorth on Dec 20, 2008 21:41:57 GMT
3rdhousenorth, I love the way you responded to this situation. It's a wonderful model--you thanked him for being clear and you made a choice to look after yourself. It's a good combination, one that will bring you what you want! Not really off topic as we might discern his ascendant by the way he initiates endings. What do you think? Amp up the self-love and focus on the things that are working really well in your life! Warm wishes, Kim Thanks, Kim! It felt good at the time, but I'm still hurting from it (actually, I'm sure more from all the past stuff it brings up than from this specifically - just thought this time it'd be different). Will work on the self-love - and I have a lot of good in my life, including lots of good friends. Will get through this. I don't know about how Ascendant signs initiate endings. This was sudden, and seems like it was less about an ending than something interfering with it going forward. What he said was that someone came back into his life and brought feeling he thought he'd cleared up. And: "I’d love to continue getting to know you but it would be unfair to the both of us if I kept seeing you without getting this untangled." Is that an ending? At any rate, in the present moment, it's an ending for me as far as I'm concerned. If there's a re-beginning, that's something I can't have an expectations about. Maybe it's about how endings happen for me - I have Uranus (14 Leo) conjunct my Ascendant and Moon (17/18 Leo). Sudden. Painfully (Chiron on Descendant). And now with Uranus transiting opposite my Sun (rules Leo), this has the hallmarks of Uranus!
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Post by Aphrodite on Jan 25, 2009 18:57:53 GMT
Dang, I've been pondering for weeks how to jump in this thread. Fuzzy me can't figure me out! But this thread is so much fun! Here goes! ;D So here I am: Libra rising @ 26 degrees; remainder of 1st house is Scorpio with Neptune there in Scorpio; Gemini Sun in 8th house; Pisces Moon in 5th house; Pisces subsignature. All planets and the Nodes aspect Neptune or the Ascendant! What would you like me to be today? Hmmmm? Before I had the good sense to develop my own personality I was attracting all kinds of people and things. These people and things were not necessarily people or things that I wanted, but did I mention the part about having a personality of my own? LOL! Who am I and what do I want? What is behind the illusion? These are not simple questions for me to answer. My only defense (and it wasn't much of a defense) was full flight mode. Yup, my biggest trick of all was the masterfully executed disappearing act! What to do? What to do? Well, the first thing I tried was to obey the primary directive of my family and society. I got married. I didn't love him, but he was older and supposedly stable. I'm the one that is messed up, right? Everyone says he is so perfect, right? He's so good to you and you don't appreciate a good man when you see one. You just need to settle down and stop being so flighty. Ha, ha, ha! What a crock! Next, there was a long bout of time (10+ years!) with me off by myself, hiding behind very elaborately constructed self-defense systems, and learning about me. No one could get through my defenses! I was too slippery! I was going to be alone forever. I even changed my name in honor of my marriage to ME! Then this wonderful man shows up: his Sun to my Moon - my Moon to his Sun - trine Ascendants and enough sexual ties to wake the dead. Game over! No where to hide anymore! There is still so much that doesn't make sense. Thank you, Neptune - NOT! I'm not sure if I even have a seduction technique anymore. I do try to be pretty for D. Other than that, he gets the real me. <poke me - giggle! Yup, that's me!> I think it must be magic! Blessings to Everyone, Aphrodite
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