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Post by 3rdhousenorth on Sept 13, 2007 23:47:21 GMT
Hi all, I've had this on and off flirtation with a guy at work for over a year and nothing has ever come of it. We've hardly talked, but there's this exchange of meaningful looks when we pass each other! It's ridiculous and sometimes annoying and I decide it's not anything that will ever be more, but then a look gets exchanged and I get that thrill. Sigh. Anyway, I thought I'd throw a horary and see what anyone here thinks. Anyone?  |
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Post by Kim Falconer on Sept 27, 2007 20:37:26 GMT
Hi 3rdhousenorth, The wording of the question is ever so important.  It not only helps frame the answer but also helps the querent get in touch with what they really want...or want to know. The 'relationship' with this person is already 'something' but even though it's not taking a tangible form like strong friendship, dating etc. I got the feeling immediately that you would be working more closely together and that would be the ground for 'anything' to eventuate. Just briefly, your rulers (Mars and Venus) are approaching a sextile and the Moon has plenty of upcoming aspects so 'there is more to unfold'. Curiosity is a key word -- it's a matter of who will make the first move. A good exercise her is to list out all the aspects that the Moon applies to see how this might unfold. Any ideas? You can also look at the timing in terms of how long it will take (degree wise) for Venus to complete the sextile to Mars -- about 5, so thing in terms of 5 weeks or 5 months!  Kim |
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Post by 3rdhousenorth on Sept 27, 2007 23:52:25 GMT
Thanks so much, Kim. Very interesting that you responded to this today. I had a couple of encounters with him today at work and felt something a little different today. I'm in a strange place emotionally right now because my mom just died a week ago (he doesn't know). Maybe it's left me more vulnerable and thus more open. But then as usual it ends up in some frustration, too, with who's going to make a move? Sheesh, who knows.  And of course I question whether it would even be a good thing... and if not, we still have to see each other. This horary started with Moon just passing sextile to Venus (which happened to be right on my natal Ascendant and Moon 17/18 Leo). In the horary, the Moon first trines Neptune, for no doubt more fantasizing, alas (just after talking to him briefly this morning I had a spontaneous fantasy pop into my mind of running back and throwing my arms around him!  ) and confusion. Then it trines Mars, bringing the physical and emotional into alignment, but in air signs I wonder if still all in our heads? And with a trine - nice, but not dynamic enough to push this into eventuating? But then, as you pointed out elsewhere here, Mars is action. And we need some kind of action to happen! Then the Moon sextiles Pluto for perhaps some deepening. Sigh, I just don't know. Not sure how we'd be working together, but maybe something would throw us in the same place for a bit. It would sure help to get some help from the Universe since neither of us seems capable of overcoming our shyness.  A side note: Any recommendations for books on horary? I know little about how to read a horary chart, just from bits and pieces I've picked up. Thanks! 3NH |
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Post by 3rdhousenorth on Oct 21, 2007 0:14:56 GMT
Ach. Five weeks after the horary, yesterday, we had 3 crossed paths in one day - very unusual - and he barely acknowledged me instead of the usual flirty smiles. The 2nd time I said something to him which he either didn't hear or didn't respond to at all and kept walking past. The 3rd time, at a company social thing, he seemed so uncomfortable when he saw me he left the room as quickly as he could. Sigh.
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And of course I question whether it would even be a good thing... and if not, we still have to see each other.
) and confusion. Then it trines Mars, bringing the physical and emotional into alignment, but in air signs I wonder if still all in our heads? And with a trine - nice, but not dynamic enough to push this into eventuating? But then, as you pointed out elsewhere here, Mars is action. And we need some kind of action to happen! Then the Moon sextiles Pluto for perhaps some deepening. Sigh, I just don't know.