What kept him from answering?

[moondance7]

I got to brooding again about my old "EX", and wondering why he never answered me (a letter written months ago). Does this chart hold any clues that I just can't see? Of course, I would be Lord 1,he is Lord 7. My significator the moon, is in the house of endings here, but it feels like an incomplete explanation. Any help is much appreciated. Thanks.

[AquarianEssence]

I don't see any connection between your and his significators. Eventually Moon will square Saturn at the void, but the only active aspect with Moon now is sextile to Venus ruling the house holding the Moon and the 11th where you would be exalted. Are you sure he received the letter? Even the 0 attached to the fallen Moon says maybe not. The 3rd, your writings, at a critical degree is ruled by Mercury, not real happy in Sag, the sign of other's writings and has just finished a square to Uranus, who rules his possesions. I'll be a little embarrassed if I'm way off, but had to throw it out there.

[darkdreamer]

This is interesting. Cause I had the same feeling.

I only had a short look at the chart, but somehow it didn`t tell me anything, so I didn`t reply.
But at the same time I wondered if he ever got the letter. Just a very spontaneous thought.

[moondance7]

Thanks for taking the time to look. A few months ago I did an horary about whether or not he had received the letter- it showed up firmly in his turned second house of movable possessions. When I look at this chart I see him debilitated in his turned 8th house, which worries me. Even though our parting was bitter, I still care about him and hope he is not sick/dying or totally freaked out about something. I see Uranus in his third house with the nodes,which I consider as change or upset in his thoughts,but nodes are benifics. Mars always represents his wife in these charts so I see my letter,Mercury, near her-maybe she was uncomfortable with my writing to him and asked him not to respond. Uranus poorly aspects both the letter and his wife, so I don't know how to interpret this. But he is retrograding and not powerful in this chart. My significator, the moon, is both angular and in it's own house but is anti-received by Mars, the sign it is in,so no power there,either. I see him (Saturn) as skewered by Neptune, in his house of self esteem,values and posesssions. Altogether, he seems a mess in this chart, and maybe answering me is the last thing he can give energy to.Does anybody have a flash of insight about any of these things?

[moondance7]

OH-OH, MAJOR BOOBOO!!! I put up the wrong chart!!! They are very close in time and I mistook one for the other. Maybe NOW you can read it. What a dummy! I'm so sorry! Please try again.

[AquarianEssence]

Well, this chart has connection between significators, a 1 degree applying conjunction. 1 degree shows emphasis, Saturn in the sign of love in his detriment, Sun in the house of love, disposited by generous Jupiter in the house of love. But this is his 11th house of friendship and detachment. I would say, especially with Sun conjunct Pluto, it is more than he can handle, too intense and overpowering.

Ohhh. I see Gemini and Sag must be intercepted in 5/11. This chart syle is so hard to read. But I see that Leo/Aq rule 1/7 and 2/8. Gem/Sag is communication, your letter. Mercury rules your letter-3rd and is in Jupiter's sign ruling his 3rd, mail and thinking. His 3rd is in the 8th duad which is the Libra duad. That brings in Venus and Capricorn which is long term commitment and self control. Could it be that he doesn't have the love for you that you feel for him and he is commited to staying in relationship with his wife? I see his 5th, your 11th is empty with both rulers in the opposite sign, also intercepted. There is an imbalance within the love/friendship axis that has caused a deficiency in your relationship to be projected onto the axis of values. I would say he looks rather immature with Saturn in Leo. Sun is better off, in a familiar element at least.

Jupiter represents the husband to me and Venus the wife. I think Venus is peregrine here so my guess is she doesn't know about the letter, it is foreign to her.

Mars and Jupiter both rule your love. The have already come together but are now separating. This also speaks of his plans, so I'm not quite sure what to make of it.

Why do you say Mars represents his wife? It should be his 7th which would be the ascendant. I hope someone better than me comes in. This isn't as easy to read.

[moondance7]

I posted a reply, but it's not showing up,so here goes again. I expect any horary about this relationship to be difficult, since it is over 30 yrs. old! But, you know us Cancers. Also, he is over 1,000 miles away and I don't know if these issues make it harder to read. Anyway, his natal sun,venus and merc are all conjunct my 3'31" Virgo asc., and he will be going through a conjunction with transiting Saturn in September. At our age, I was wondering about his health. If you see anything else, let me know. Thanks