Uh- Oh!

[jamma]

Uh-oh ... I have been rash (and now I'm afraid Saturn is mentally spanking me!)

I was inspired by Neptunewoman's thread yesterday and got up the nerve to ask a similar question:
"Is X romantically interested in me?" (I used his real name in the question but changed it when I sent the chart to photobucket) ...

Now I am afraid that I have my answer but can't interpret it! ... plus, I just saw Svenska's note about "not asking twice" so I guess I'm stuck ...

I don't know if the chart is "fit to read," but I noticed the comment that things relating from the natals can make the chart radical ...
Here, the horary chart's:
Asc conjuncts my natal Thalia and X's natal Eros ...
MC conjuncts my natal Moon
IC conjuncts his natal Sun/Moon midpoint
5th house cusp conjuncts my natal MC and Eros/Psyche midpoint; and his natal Venus and Jupiter
Moon conjuncts both of our natal Saturns (if you allow a 2 1/2 degree orb)
Mercury conjuncts my natal Eros/South Node/Part of Marriage (Valens -- the naughty one!) and opposes his Fortuna conjunct my North Node
Venus and Chiron conjunct his natal Ceres
Mars conjuncts my progressed Sun/Moon midpoint and opposes his progressed Sun and my natal Chiron
Neptune opposes my natal Vertex, which is conjunct his natal Psyche
Pluto conjuncts my natal Juno and Lot of Passion
True Node is opposite my Neptune
Lilith conjuncts his natal Asc and Lot of Marriage (general)
Vertex conjuncts his natal Moon

This seemed like enough for me, so I didn't go on to look for the other aspects ...

If this horary is "fit," then with Cancer rising, I (the querent) would be the Moon ...
But as I'm more interested in romance than "legal" marriage, do I look to the 5th or 7th for the quesited? And what about the 8th? What I want more than anything is a deep, passionate, transformative communion of souls ...

I've been reading Houlding's horary tutorial, but after awhile my eyes just glaze over ... my Mercury in Pisces on the cusp of the 3rd learns best by picking things up from other people, so I'd be very grateful for any help! ...
Love, Jamma

[svenskasfinx]

I'd like to help you with this one, only I'm pressed for time, but to help others read your chart, what you can do is find the chart style that tells directly if the aspect is applying or seperating..

You see when dealing with horary its about the aspects which are applying.. and the timing with them..

I've been studying and what we can do is take a look at the other charts that have some kind of "success" or "failure" concerning the answer and see exactly what it was that took place.

Once you have the idea of what is applying, you should logically elliminate all the aspects which have passed and are seperating.

Applying aspects are the determining factor it seems.

The aspects that passed tell you what has happened to lead up to the moment of the question.. the atmosphere.

If you can't post a new chart, I'll do it later when I start out in the morning.

Take care,

svenskasfinx

[jamma]

Thanks, Svenska ...
Here are the applying aspects, according to the astrodienst data sheet:

Moon trine Mercury, 1 deg 38'
Moon square Mars, -3 deg 03'
Moon square Jupiter, 5 deg 23'
Moon conjunct Saturn, 4 deg 58'
Moon quincunx Neptune, -9 deg 54"
Moon trine NN, -4 deg 20
Mercury quincunx Mars 1 deg 25
Mercury trine Saturn, -3 deg 20
Mercury trine NN, 2 deg 42
Venus square Mars, 7 deg 50
Venus opposite Saturn, -9 deg 45
Venus conjunct Chiron, 0 deg 01
Mars square Saturn, 1 deg 55
Mars square Neptune, -6 deg 51
Mars sextile Asc, 0 deg 05
Jupiter square Neptune, 4 deg 31
Jupiter trine Asc, 2 deg 26
Saturn opposite Chiron, -9 deg44

I didn't include the quintile, biquintile or aspects to the MC ...

Below is the new photobucket ... the chart style was ok, but I had it marked "reduce to 75 percent" on astrodienst, so they excluded the Applying and Separating marks (to save room, I guess -- those efficient Swiss!) ...

Thanks again, J

[Kim Falconer]

Again, pressed for time, Jamma, but my feeling is that X has commitments to a family (ruler in his 4th and there is no aspect between you (moon) and him (Venus) --no ACTION at this time.

The final aspect of Moon trine sun is lovely though--something quite lovely comes of it!

More soon,
Kim

[jamma]

Thanks, Kim and everyone ...
I was in such a panic, first because I had asked the question and then because I knew X was coming over the next day! ...
What a relief to know that no ACTION was required but that things might turn out fine in the end ...
Now I can relax and not worry!
Thanks again, J