Could this be my soulmate

[aqua]

Hi, please could somone look at the synastry between my chart and a guy who I've recently started seeing. We've worked together for the last three years, but have only just got together. With my limited understanding of astrology, I noticed some nice cross aspects to our personal planets, but I'm not sure of the significance of the asteroids aspecting personal planets.

Here are some of the nice aspects that picked up on:
Moon trine Asc - both ways
Sun trine Moon
Moon Sextile Sun
Mercury conjunct Sun
Venus and Moon conjunct Mars
Venus trine Asc
Sun conjunct Juno
Sun conjunct Psyche and Ceres
Eros conjunct Mars
Moon conjunct Jupiter and Uranus
Moon and Venus conjunct North Node and IC

What I found interesting was that the 1st house of the composite chart has Sun, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Juno, Ceres, Psyche, Karma and Pallas. Eros is conjunct the Asc from and Moon is in the 12th but conjunct the Asc.

Please could you tell me the significance of all this? Could this be a soulmate connection? I feel as though I love him and it's been less than a month since we got together!

My birth data is: 21 Jan 1969, 09:20am, Perivale, England
His birth data is: 31 Dec 1969, 05:25am, Saltburn-by-the-sea, England

Many thanks.
Aqua.

[cosirose]

Hi Aqua,

I think the first question you need to ask yourself is what YOU define as a soulmate? Given that people define this word in many ways, it is important to know your view point. Some people like myself believe there are multiple soulmates and that sometimes these people are even just planotic in our world but you know your souls are completely meshed. Obviously, I understand your question as I know I want that one true romantic soulmate many long for. And I have questione how you know when you have it.

But honestly, I think you do know when you have it because it goes way beyond just sex. It moves to an knowing inside that is spiritual, emotional, and sexual.

Chiron aspects are thought be indications of Soulmate connections. Neptune and Pluto connections too. Psyche is supposed to be pretty powerful indication of soulmate encounters.

I did notice that in your composite you have Neptune in the 11th house of hopes and dreams and wishes. This I would think is a very spiritual placement. And it is conjunct both the sun and pluto. This will give your relationship a definite intensity of feelings and a fate like quality. Also the Uranus qualities will give it an electricity feeling. So any connections between the sun, moon, venus, chiron and uranus will intensify this.

Also in the synastry remember that with your Venus conjunct his Mars, there is definitely a strong attraction between you two regardless whether this is a soulmate connection. But again, I think we just know intuitively if its a soulmate. Also, you have sun conjunct psyche so this is really going to intensify feelings! And you also have moon and venus conjunct true node. This is really going to give your connection a romantic binding quality to it.

Having said all that ...I'm still learning so much about astrology and am pretty new at studying it intensely. So...

I love this link below that has some interesting information about soulmates.

www.thezodiac.com/soulmates2.htm

Also this one is interesting too:

www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/005731.html


This one is also great!:
www.cafeastrology.com/astrology_of_relationships.html

Enjoy!
Cosirose

[AquarianEssence]

Even if you aren't true soulmates, it looks REALLY good on paper. Have you looked at the solstice points? I think there is a thread here that explains them if you don't know what they are. I would look at those. The Magi society uses Chiron for soulmate connections. I don't think our twin soul would have all soft aspects with us, at least for most of the journey. I think its more like the Gemini twins, one heavenly the other earthly. They were split to take different paths and eventually be reunited as one divine whole. But in the meantime, they will reunite periodically to learn how to integrate two totally different paths, not a smooth ride at all. If this weren't so, why would they ever be separated in the first place. I think we also have soul groups but the connections would be shown in different ways.

[aqua]

Thank you both so much for your replies.

Soulmate: I once read that a soulmate is something that comes into your life and messes with your soul so much that you will never be the same person after the encounter. That's one definition, but the other one I also like, is obivously the romantic one.

Cosirose, you mentioned Chiron being a soulmate connection, well his Chiron is conjunct my NN. There is also great sexual chemistry, which I think is my Venus conjunct his Mars and also his Eros conjunct my Mars.

Aquarianessence - I couldn't find the thread on Solstice points, but I'll search the web for it.

Anyway, there is definitely a strong bond betweeen us, but it's still early days, so I'm going to see how things go.

I'll keep you posted.

Thanks again!

[searose]

i believe that a soulmate relationship can be extremely painful at times because of the depth of your emotions and the feeling that you will never love another soul like you do this one again .

[primamateria]

dear Searose... I haven't had a look at your charts yet, but I can kinda get a mental picture of what they look like... and its intense...

I have a similar synastry situation with a man I met around the time of my North Node Return (as you must have had recently too)... we have Chiron-NN and NN-Saturn, Venus-Saturn and Mars-Mars conjunctions, mutual SN-Moon conjunctions and Neptune-PF-Ascendant...a whole bunch more, including Venus-Mars, Mars-Saturn, Venus-Mercury and double whammy Pluto-Jupiter-Uranus aspects...(the charts are on here somewhere, but I am May 1, 1969 at 9.16am, Adelaide Australia, and he is Oct 3, 1967, at 8.10am, same place) analysing it all just drives me insane, so I stopped....

needless to say our 'relationship' (if we can call it that - its definitely a connection though) is fraught with all kinds of challenges... and at times felt like it would all fall apart, and if it weren't for the fact that we 'accidentally on purpose' made a baby within weeks of meeting, its hard to tell whether or not we'd still be in contact with each other.

At any rate the kind of synastry you and your lover have is bound to be a catalyst for all kinds of change and growth in you both - a 'soul's-evolution-mate' indeed...

joy!
PrimaMateria