Post by sarah5 on Dec 6, 2006 0:22:43 GMT
Hi everyone,
although I’m not exactly a stranger to this wonderful website (I’ve been reading on this forum for more than a year now) this is actually my very first post today! And as so many others before me, I just would like to apologize in advance in case some of my expressions etc. may be everything but crystal clear…I’m not a native speaker, so please be patient with my English. I’ll make an effort to stick to short sentences :-)
I’m now finally 'getting active’ because of a man I met a couple of months ago at a conference. Actually when I met him I recognized him from my time at University 10 years ago. Back then I never got to know or speak to him, I only saw him around campus. But when I first saw him all those years ago, it was as if somebody had knocked me over the head, it was such an intense ‘this is the man of my life’ experience.
Anyway, to cut a long story short – at university I was too shy to talk to him, but 10 years on we finally got talking and it was almost surreal how we ‘clicked’. An unbelievable experience, it was as if my gut feeling from the past was proven right. I honestly can say, that I’ve never felt so comfortable talking to a
man, let alone someone I felt so attracted to.
However, since then contact has been mainly through e-mail and a major disaster to say the least - awkward and tense and I guess full of misunderstandings (I blame the venus opposite Saturn double whammy in our synastry chart…) In terms of length my post would turn into a little monster if I were to describe the details of our communication problems, so just this much - Although he did suggest coffee early on, we never actually went. Instead I was invited to his party, but hardly talked…now we are back to e-mail silence...
To be honest I’m just so confused what is going on and feel like I have so little energy left.
I have no idea whether he is attracted to me, but intimidated, just sees me as a useful networking contact (he’s only now beginning his career, I am on the other hand in a very prestigious job already) or just likes me as a friend.
Although I realize that analysing our synastry chart can’t fully solve this puzzle, it at least has prompted me to clarify some astrology questions I’ve always wondered about.
So one thing I have always wanted to ask about is te role of venus in synastry – and more specifically the man’s venus in synastry. I’ve read so often that the man’s venus is an indicator of what he views as his ideal woman. Now I realize that this by itself may be a far too simplistic take on things and that the 7th house has to be considered in any case.
But I’m just wondering. If we have no birthtime and therefore no information about his 7th house, do you feel that it is still 'safe' to assume the woman might push major ‘buttons’ reg. his inner anima if her planets strongly aspect the man’s venus? If nothing else, wouldn’t she at least appeal to his aesthetic senses?
I would be really grateful if you could share your opinion!
I’ve always wondered about this and given that my planets aspect this man’s venus quite strongly, of course I’m even more interested in this question.
(his venus in capricorn is conjunct my sun,mercury and venus.
She is also trine my moon, sextile my Jupiter, semi-sextile my mars. In addition, she opposes my ascendant, my eros and my Saturn. And is square my Chiron and Aphrodite.)
Now this post has turned into a little monster after all…:-)
although I’m not exactly a stranger to this wonderful website (I’ve been reading on this forum for more than a year now) this is actually my very first post today! And as so many others before me, I just would like to apologize in advance in case some of my expressions etc. may be everything but crystal clear…I’m not a native speaker, so please be patient with my English. I’ll make an effort to stick to short sentences :-)
I’m now finally 'getting active’ because of a man I met a couple of months ago at a conference. Actually when I met him I recognized him from my time at University 10 years ago. Back then I never got to know or speak to him, I only saw him around campus. But when I first saw him all those years ago, it was as if somebody had knocked me over the head, it was such an intense ‘this is the man of my life’ experience.
Anyway, to cut a long story short – at university I was too shy to talk to him, but 10 years on we finally got talking and it was almost surreal how we ‘clicked’. An unbelievable experience, it was as if my gut feeling from the past was proven right. I honestly can say, that I’ve never felt so comfortable talking to a
man, let alone someone I felt so attracted to.
However, since then contact has been mainly through e-mail and a major disaster to say the least - awkward and tense and I guess full of misunderstandings (I blame the venus opposite Saturn double whammy in our synastry chart…) In terms of length my post would turn into a little monster if I were to describe the details of our communication problems, so just this much - Although he did suggest coffee early on, we never actually went. Instead I was invited to his party, but hardly talked…now we are back to e-mail silence...
To be honest I’m just so confused what is going on and feel like I have so little energy left.
I have no idea whether he is attracted to me, but intimidated, just sees me as a useful networking contact (he’s only now beginning his career, I am on the other hand in a very prestigious job already) or just likes me as a friend.
Although I realize that analysing our synastry chart can’t fully solve this puzzle, it at least has prompted me to clarify some astrology questions I’ve always wondered about.
So one thing I have always wanted to ask about is te role of venus in synastry – and more specifically the man’s venus in synastry. I’ve read so often that the man’s venus is an indicator of what he views as his ideal woman. Now I realize that this by itself may be a far too simplistic take on things and that the 7th house has to be considered in any case.
But I’m just wondering. If we have no birthtime and therefore no information about his 7th house, do you feel that it is still 'safe' to assume the woman might push major ‘buttons’ reg. his inner anima if her planets strongly aspect the man’s venus? If nothing else, wouldn’t she at least appeal to his aesthetic senses?
I would be really grateful if you could share your opinion!
I’ve always wondered about this and given that my planets aspect this man’s venus quite strongly, of course I’m even more interested in this question.
(his venus in capricorn is conjunct my sun,mercury and venus.
She is also trine my moon, sextile my Jupiter, semi-sextile my mars. In addition, she opposes my ascendant, my eros and my Saturn. And is square my Chiron and Aphrodite.)
Now this post has turned into a little monster after all…:-)
