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Post by Aphrodite on Oct 29, 2009 19:07:04 GMT
The planets are always most important. You can and should read an entire chart and get the main essence of a person without adding asteroids or other points. Once you are comfortable with that, then (and only then) do you add the lesser energies to your interpretation. Asteroids are like spice to the soup. They add flavor and character, but they cannot change the dish. Kim has a very good article on synastry that will help you when you are ready for it. www.falconastrology.com/astro_compatibility.htmAphrodite |
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Post by Aphrodite on Oct 29, 2009 23:13:03 GMT
Where were you born?
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Post by Aphrodite on Oct 30, 2009 1:55:02 GMT
Exactly! That was my concern from the beginning as I consider the conjunctions between Ronnie and Toni from the other post. Toni's Venus is in Gemini and her Mars is in Virgo. Romance and sexuality. Now Ronnie's Eros conjuncts her Venus. By all I have read, this is extremely powerful on it's own and it addresses her sense of passion and romance. Ronnie's own Venus conjuncts her Mars. Again the classic indication of romance and sexual compatibility. Then also, Ronnie's south node also conjuncts her Venus which adds the feeling of romantic fatedness to it all. So, in him, both her Gemini Venus and Virgo Mars issues are addressed. He must seem like a god to her. In my humble opinion, this appears to be an almost unbeatable combination for romantic and passionate sexual attraction. I would say, based on my research, the two people would be completely "Sprung" on one another and willing to risk many things in order to be together. Why in the world would they ever tell me the truth? My Eros conjunct Psyche contact, although it is said to indicate soul mates, I fear is no match for the powerful conjunctions that they have together. Before I get my heart broken I am thinking maybe I should just throw in the towel. My gut instincts are telling me I'm right. I know that you mentioned squares that they shared before, but somehow, I believe that the combinations that I point out between the two of them are alive and well.  It will be as you say then. It is quite common for people with Sun/Pluto aspects to pick their relationships apart to the point that the relationship is utterly destroyed. (Hey, I should know!) Why should you be any different? There is nothing that this other guy has on you. In fact, the interaspects between their charts are quite somber, almost lugubrious at times. They have Sun conjunct Saturn both ways in synastry and exactly conjunct in the composite chart. There's Sun conjunct Mars, as well. They are out of sync physically in many ways. That does not mean that they could not overcome their difficulties if they chose to be in a relationship together. Saturn has the ability to tie people together even when they are extremely unhappy together. If they decide to be together, then they will be together. Nevertheless, so far, that hasn't happened. On the other hand, you fit the description of her Juno in Leo quite well. Plus, she has serious Saturn ties to you too. But also some happier aspects. That Venus/Mars conjunction that you are so jealous of? It's 8 1/2 degrees! If you count that then why don't you count the Venus/Mars conjunction at 9 degrees that you share with her? You also have a beautiful Venus trine Mars in close aspect. I guess you don't count that either. No relationship is perfect, but you two have a lot to work with; more than you give it credit. The bottom line is that all this counts for nothing. Free will reigns supreme. She chose you, but you reject her. No match. Therefore, you will not be together. She will eventually realize that she will never have a future with you and give up. Aphrodite |
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Post by Aphrodite on Oct 30, 2009 4:35:08 GMT
I'm glad I could help. Believe it or not, I've been through all this before myself (similar situations).
So if it turns out that you really do have a chance with her, what is it that you want? You never did answer that question. We did establish the part about you loving her enough to let her go (noncommittal). But you need to know is if you love her enough to be with her? Would you consider planning a future with her, come what may?
Aphrodite
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Post by Juliet on Oct 30, 2009 18:02:54 GMT
My, Xihp, you're putting quite a lot of energy in 'them', don't you? And committing yourself cannot ever be done by expecting any guarantees, since there are none in relationships. Actually, you are distancing yourself emotionally, and so the outcome in the short run will be obvious and that will bring some sort of guarantee after all. Maybe you will even feel relieved.
Also, remember we have these synastry aspects with lots of people we pass on the street and do not even look at, so I would never ever let the aspects decide my actions and live a self fulfilling prophecy. If you want her, go for her. I f.e. would like that immensely, since I'm scared in love too, and I need a lot of convincing courting behaviour to be won over.
In this matter I would advice you to talk honestly to her instead of looking at the stars to confirm your fears! You are rationalizing, imhp.
"I also believe that the ability to be committed and devoted come more naturally when two people are properly matched." Well, I don't, it took the father of my kids and me six years to stabilize our relationship! Concentrate on the great synastry you have with her and take the risk!
All my very best! Juliet
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Post by Xihp on Oct 30, 2009 22:03:33 GMT
Thanx a lot Juliet for your comment. I agree with all that you have said. In fact, I just recently came to a similar conclusion on my own. Part of it though is my fascination with how accurate astrology can be. I am new to it all and am completely amazed by it everyday. It definitely shows that there is a scheme to it all.
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