Hello Kim,
I`m sorry for that question I posed. I will delete my first post, if you want me to, because I just realized that it`s really none of my business. Curious me. Sorry!
"I see gender as performative and therefore sexual preferences as containing large elements of projection which are subject to change over a life time."
Yes, I think I do agree. And as I said, I probably shouldn`t have asked that question.
However, there is another question that is actually pressing me more than the one about sexual orientation. And that question leads me back again to the singer, I`ve told you about last year, the one who keeps on popping up in my life again and again.
Well, I`m gonna see him on a concert this autumn again, and I still feel like I want to talk to him. I think I somehow want him to notice me.
So that is exactly the question that I posed: Will he notice me on that evening?
And here is the chart:
Even though the ascendant is very late Pisces, the chart is readable I guess.
My significators are Jupiter (as lord of the 1st house), Moon and Venus (as natural ruler of women);
his significators are Mercury (lord of 7th house) and Sun (as natural ruler of men). Or don`t you use the natural rulers?
However, my main significator, Jupiter is in Sagittarius exactly conjunct the 9th house cusp; so I guess it is very strongly placed, since he is in his own sign and house (and accidentally in my Sun- and ASC-sign).
But what does it really mean, if you say a planet is strong?
That I will feel well this evening?
But the fact, that Jupiter is in his own sign, also seems to imply that I`m very interested in myself, doesn`t it?
Also, Jupiter is in the sign of Mercury`s fall; so what does this mean? That I am a pure annoyance to Mercury, him?
But on the other hand, Jupiter is also in triplicity of the Sun, his natural ruler. What does that mean?
It is a reception, isn`t it? Reception means being receptive to someone else, to feel an inclination, but who would feel the inclination?
However, Moon, my co-significator, is in Gemini, the second sign of his significator, so it seems I am very interested in him.
Even more so, since Venus is in Virgo, the other Mercury-sign.
His significator, Mercury, is in Leo; the sign of his natural rujler, Sun. So he is much more interested in himself.
But, Mercury is also in triplicity of my significator, Jupiter, because Mercury is in Leo, and Leo and Sag are naturally in trine. Is that right so far? Because I feel very insufficient in using triplicities. So if I am wrong here, please tell me so.
But if it is right and his significator is in triplicity of my significator, maybe that can indicate a moderate interest on his side, too?
HIs natural ruler, Sun, is also in Jupiter`s triplicity.
But I guess all those receptions don`t say anything, if there are no aspects.
Well, his significator, MErcury, applies to a trine with my significator, Jupiter. So, a contact is possible?
However, it`s still no mutual reception here. Mercury is in triplicity of Jupiter, but Jupiter is in fall of Mercury. So, he may notice me, but think I am an annoyance?
Jupiter also has a separating trine to Sun; well, it is separating, so in the past, and probably unimportant for this horary.
My Co-significator, Moon, also separates from a sextile to MErcury, but applies to a sextile to Sun. So a contact is possible in the future? But only if the Sun is really one of his significators (I`m still not sure about the natural significators).
So, I guess, the most important aspect would be the applying trine between Mercury and Jupiter. But how do I judge the fact, that Jupiter is in Mercury`s fall?
And how would be the answer? Will he notice me? Or not?
Thanks a lot.
DD