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Post by 3rdhousenorth on May 17, 2006 1:23:14 GMT
I've started dating a guy whose south node is on my uranus/ascendant/moon and north node on my descendant/chiron. He also happens to have Venus conjunct my Saturn. He's been persistent over a long time (we were emailing intermittently, eventually phone calling, finally met). I've heard that the nodes conjunct the asendant/descendant line is karmic. I was once in another relationship where my SN/NN was conjunct his asc/dsc and I felt strongly drawn to him, like it was meant to be. He didn't feel quite the same way, but not everyone's as sensitive or intuitive about these things.
3rdhousenorth
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Post by Kim Falconer on May 18, 2006 10:38:25 GMT
Hello 3rdhousenorth,
It can feel like quite an impact when the nodal axis is on anther personas Ascendant-descendent axis. Much is awakened.
You can call it 'karmic' if that aligns with your belief system...you doesn’t have to though. You can see it as an awakening, a real 'rise and shine' wake UP call.
This new date does sound like he's quite enthused, perhaps more that you are...which is fine. You may find that being around him particularly activates you Moon/Uranus conjunction, compelling you to express both your need for intimacy and nurturing and your need for space, freedom and autonomy. It's tricky but there is something in how you live this out that may 'get him on his path' get him moving more actively towards his future goals.
It can be quite a creative contact if we can handle the intensity of what wakes up!
Whether it is enduring or not doesn't matter...what matters is the quality of the exchange.
What do you 'notice' so far about being with him? What does it wake up in you?
Warmly,
Kim
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Post by 3rdhousenorth on May 18, 2006 20:41:48 GMT
Thank you, Kim. This is very interesting. I've only met this guy once so far since he's long-distance - moving back here where he grew up after being away for many years. I did feel very safe being with him (perhaps from his Venus on my Saturn on 5th cusp, which squares my Virgo Sun). The distance probably helps also make this safe in terms of give me freedom! It remains to be seen how it goes forward when he's actually living here. BTW, we are both experiencing a Neptune transit - my Desc/Chiron and his North Node. Which means it is all unclear!
There is always intensity for me in relationships - I also have Venus conjoined Pluto at 2 Virgo in the 1st house. It's always been a problem for me when I do really respond to someone because it feels out of control - not sure if that's Moon/Uranus or Venus/Pluto or both.
On the other hand, it can stimulate my creativity! During my last relationship, I wrote a lot of poetry. Alas that ended painfully. I have not felt creatively stimulated by this current one as yet, but we'll see. I am, unusually for me (all Venus-Pluto Virgo focused that I am), dating others as well. Maybe Neptune's going to play around with my imagination for awhile! It will station exactly on my Dsc in the fall, with Saturn opp transiting the Asc/Moon of course. I think I'm in for quite the interesting make-over!
3rdhousenorth
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Post by 3rdhousenorth on May 18, 2006 21:36:02 GMT
I should also note that this guy (with his SN/NN conjunct my Asc/Dsc) has Juno a few degrees before my Dsc, which puts it opp my Uranus. Lots of freedom/commitment stuff to balance out here.
And he has both Venus and Eros conjunct my Saturn. I noticed, Kim, what you said elsewhere about the difficulty Eros has with commitment-focused areas:
"Only when the mysterious, unpredictable and erotic nature of the god of love is free and unhindered by prescribed arrangements can he function in a long-term commitment. The success or defeat of such a union will depend on the ability of the couple to avoid the trap of tying Eros down or confining him to the known and familiar. Certainly, the erotic will awaken, and the person touched can be acutely aware of the other’s passionate and sensual nature. Finding creative ways to mix the erotic with the committed is the ongoing objective for both of them."
I can see how this might be the case. I'm very attracted to the commitment possibilities with this guy after I've had so many potential relationships never get to even exclusivity, much less a more lasting commitment. But there's also part of me that I realize isn't sure about giving up my freedom.
3rdhousenorth (9th house aries south node!)
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Post by 3rdhousenorth on May 20, 2006 12:19:59 GMT
"Even up front, when we tell someone where we are it still means the relationship has to unfold!"
JadeII - Thanks. I have had trouble letting things unfold naturally. But then my trying to control things hasn't worked so well either! Maybe that's what this Neptune transit will teach me - to let go and see what the universe washes up, control being an illusion anyway. (Neptune transiting my 7th cusp and Chiron, opposing Uranus/Asc/Moon - although Uranus is past the direct transit.) It will be important, esp with Neptune, not to let projections take over. While letting Neptune soften my expectations and control also keeping one foot on the ground to be sure to see what's really going on. With 5 earth sign planets I think I should be able to stay grounded.
Anyway, we'll see...
3rdhousenorth
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Post by alejoplay on Dec 27, 2006 15:49:08 GMT
funny reading this. I was at the gym yesterday and someone hit on me (I guess I look good on the cardio machines). We chatted and decided to have coffee. He was leaving the country for 12 days today and was pretty assertive about having a date right at that moment. I felt pretty comfortable with him. Everything felt sort of intense, yet easy.
Turns out he's had his chart done and we're talking astrology. His true node's on my ASC. His Saturn is right on my DSC. I have no idea where this is going yet (too soon to tell), but it was interesting how I felt this very. strong. pull towards him from the get go.
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Post by Kim Falconer on Dec 29, 2006 4:10:33 GMT
"A strong pull from the get go"!That sums it up nicely. There are a lot of other things going on when we meet a new person, but when the nodes line up with the angles, we often feel that pull. It doesn't really say what 'kind' of relationship it will be--or if it will be for more than a moment, but we tend to recall the connection as significant. Let us know what happens! Kim 
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Post by alejoplay on Dec 29, 2006 13:41:16 GMT
^like I said he's away until the end of next week so we'll see what happens when he returns and we go on on Date #2
we were both pretty verbal about how significant it was. he said "it's a bit like magic."
so whatever happens, I find it interesting to see this node/ASC conjunction at work.
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Post by lubenica on Dec 30, 2006 11:40:24 GMT
Hi,
I don't know what orb is allowed for nodal conjunctions to AC/DC, could someone please tell me?
I had this with someone, in addition to his NN being direct exact midpoint to my Sun, Moon/ASC midopoint (yes, I am a triple sign), so kind of a double whammy.
All I can say that there was this instant and intense recognition of the person. This kind of deep knowledge that we had met before, the real "knowing". This person had the biggest impact on me, however, it is always difficult to separate this from other aspects going on, and there were many. I still believe that Node aspect added this "I know you" feeling to this interaction.
Perhaps I was his mother in past life, MO/ASC midpoint (hahaha)...
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Post by alejoplay on Jan 24, 2007 16:51:32 GMT
Update: this guy just won't go away. LOL.
We went on one more date after the holidays. It was very nice. Lots of things in common, easy communication. But I freaked because I felt there was the possibility of SOMETHING SERIOUS happening.
The stars sort of aligned. I got a bad cold and I had to curtail all socializing as I had tons of obligations that needed taking care of. We've been communicating over the phone and it's given me some distance to sort out my fears (I went through a bad breakup XMas 2005 and I haven't dated anyone since, so I'm a bit gun shy at the moment). He's been super patient and sweet and adorable.
This nodal/ASC conjunction is insane. Not to mention his Saturn on my DSC. This thing's like CRAZY GLUE.
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