psyche conjunct moon in synastry

[chrissymgreen]

dear all,

i was wondering if anyone had any insight to this aspect pattern - my psyche (gemini 15°) conjuncts my friend's moon (gemini 12°), and opposes his neptune (sagittarius 15°). his moon also opposes his neptune.

i don't know a whole lot about psyche, but i know a little. mostly im just wondering how the involvement of his moon-neptune opposition fits in, or if it does.

thank you!


sincerely,
chrissy

[Kim Falconer]

Hi Chrissy,

You asked: i was wondering if anyone had any insight to this aspect pattern - my psyche (gemini 15°) conjuncts my friend's moon (gemini 12°), and opposes his neptune (sagittarius 15°). his moon also opposes his neptune.

Are you talking about 3 people here, you, a friend and him?

For now, lets just look at a two chart synastry with Moon/Neptune-Psyche.

These 3 planets have some common ground!

The moon is feeling, primal emotion, sensitivity and a good barometer as to what constitutes love for in individual in terms of nurturing.

Moon in Gemini says, “If you love me, talk to me! Read to me…communicate”.

When your Psyche is conjunct someone’s Moon, you feel an immediate empathy. Psyche is a longing to connect and an intuitive link. Put it with someone’s Moon and, if they are comfortable with their emotions, they are going to feel like you really get them. If they have emotional conflicts (as moon opposite Neptune can with its tremendous sensitivity in a “rational” world) you may make them feel protective…like you may see too much of their vulnerability.

I have Moon/Psyche conjunct natally and a few friends who’s Sun is conjunct (Aquarians). We seem to feel a rather instant rapport, though sometimes it can be too much…too close.

Generally, Psyche/Moon in Gemini would talk a lot, each saying just what the other was about to. There is a Psychic link that bonds here, provided the Moon (or Psyche) is not too damaged or shy of being exposed. This contacts sees straight into the soul!

Tell me what your experience is.

Warmly,
Kim

[chrissymgreen]

dear kim,

oh my god! that's right on. and i was talking about a 2 person chart - 1 person being me, and the other my virgo friend. that was my fault for not wording that more clearly (blame it on my 3rd house moon - i'm a total scatterbrain sometimes).

that moon opposite neptune in his chart is something that makes him really vulnerable, i think. i've read 1 or 2 brief interpretations of this aspect, and they all sort of say this aspect indicates someone who has very deep feelings, someone who is sensitive, and in this way the world can hurt them easily because they have no boundaries. i can think back to one clear example when we just began dating (we were friends before): we went to a late movie and then to whataburger after for dinner because i was craving french fries (curse those carbs). after we ate, he told me a story about how when he was in high school at that particular whataburger he came in very late one night to get some food and there was a (perhaps homeless?) woman there that asked him for some money, and so he gave her some, and when she started talking to him, he was too nice to ignore her or make excuses, and he ended up talking to her for several hours and then driving her to a friend's house at the end of the evening (by then it was morning). he is the self-professed man of no boundaries. of course, the hard aspects from the moon to neptune mean the person just struggles with this vulnerability, no? this makes sense.

i asked this question because i didnt know how my psyche would fit in there, since it is conjunct his moon and opposite his neptune. i had the thought that my psyche would be linked to that moon-neptune opposition of his.

i do think i make him uncomfortable at times. ive never probed him or pushed him in any way, but i can clearly see he's a very private person, and i think sometimes we are entirely too open and comfortable with each other for his tastes. on the other hand, i think he likes it, too, and perhaps even needs it.

and i can always finish his sentences.



sincerely,
chrissy



p.s. (i dont know if you do the turkey or tofurkey thing, but) happy holidays! i am looking forward to stuffing city tomorrow. that's actual stuffing, not stuffing myself.

[svenskasfinx]

Ah Kim you did it again!

You and my husband are not only Gemini, 23rd of May but have Moon/Psyche conjuction, his is in the first house in Cancer. (where my Sun just happens to be) (you just happen to have yours in Aquarious)

I was just going to ask about that when I saw this thread, but never mind, you answered my question quite personally without me having to ask it!

I just wanted to kind of know what that must be like for HIM.. but you just explained a few things about that affinity! Great!

I have to go to sleep now, it seems I need much more sleep lately, so I'll be working on my research soon.

take care all,

svenskasfinx

[Kim Falconer]

I am glad the thoughts on Moon/Psyche (and Neptune) seem to fit. I think Psyche is a strong point of attraction, a strong allure.

I just met someone with Eros on my Moon/Psyche. I must say, there is more than a mild curiosity about him.

Warm wishes,
Kim