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Post by Kim Falconer on Apr 18, 2009 20:51:55 GMT
Here is a handy reference for Venus as she picks up speed in the next 30 days.
From Swiss Ephemeris Date | venus | | | | LONG | ---------------------------- 18 Apr 2009 | 29 pi 11 | 19 Apr 2009 | 29 pi 13 | 20 Apr 2009 | 29 pi 17 | 21 Apr 2009 | 29 pi 23 | 22 Apr 2009 | 29 pi 32 | 23 Apr 2009 | 29 pi 42 | 24 Apr 2009 | 29 pi 55 | 25 Apr 2009 | 0 ar 10 | 26 Apr 2009 | 0 ar 27 | 27 Apr 2009 | 0 ar 45 | 28 Apr 2009 | 1 ar 6 | 29 Apr 2009 | 1 ar 28 | 30 Apr 2009 | 1 ar 52 | 01 May 2009 | 2 ar 18 | 02 May 2009 | 2 ar 45 | 03 May 2009 | 3 ar 14 | 04 May 2009 | 3 ar 44 | 05 May 2009 | 4 ar 16 | 06 May 2009 | 4 ar 49 | 07 May 2009 | 5 ar 23 | 08 May 2009 | 5 ar 59 | 09 May 2009 | 6 ar 36 | 10 May 2009 | 7 ar 14 | 11 May 2009 | 7 ar 53 | 12 May 2009 | 8 ar 34 | 13 May 2009 | 9 ar 15 | 14 May 2009 | 9 ar 58 | 15 May 2009 | 10 ar 41 | 16 May 2009 | 11 ar 25 | 17 May 2009 | 12 ar 11 | 18 May 2009 | 12 ar 57 |
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Post by ariesmoon on Apr 19, 2009 7:41:30 GMT
Thanks for posting the ephemeris Kim! I've got a turn-round story, of sorts.
I've been trying - for months - to rectify a chart of someone who I don't have a birth time for (and no current means of finding it out). Someone I love. In my impatience I'd been doing it all the wrong way - trying to find the ascendant and then make the chart fit, rather than looking at the aspects first and letting the ascendant fall out of that. I got completely distracted by the Sabian symbols. I'd simply lost the art of looking into the detail. And because of that, it's taken me months!! (Is Saturn in Virgo about to turn direct too?) There's a lesson for my Aries Moon!
With Aphrodite's help (I love it, that it's Aphrodite who helped me just as Venus turned direct!) I've found it. I went back over the aspects, looked at them in real detail, and as soon as I did, a pattern emerged which led me to the ascendant. And I'm certain of it.
It's been a fascinating creative process (Saturn in the 5th!) however long it's taken me!
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Post by 3rdhousenorth on Apr 19, 2009 14:10:45 GMT
Well, here's a turn around story...
The former love interest who I was dating in December and who re-entered my life under Venus Rx... lied about his age! I found out last night (while celebrating his birthday) that he is, in fact, four years older than he said (thus 12.5 yrs older than me). Which explains why his chart aspects (and our synastry aspects) weren't playing out. Grr. Well, Neptune is transiting my 7th house...
Incidentally, his Eros turns out to be 29 Pisces.
I've mostly decided to break it off.
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Post by Aphrodite on Apr 19, 2009 15:38:25 GMT
:-)
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Post by 3rdhousenorth on Apr 19, 2009 21:06:23 GMT
Incidentally, his Eros turns out to be 29 Pisces. Did I mention that my own Eros is at 0 Aries, thus conjunct his? This may have something to do with why I say I've "mostly" decided to break it off. There is a certain compulsive quality to this connection...
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Post by Aphrodite on Apr 20, 2009 4:10:44 GMT
3rdhousenorth, you must be very disappointed. Whatever you decide, I hope it works out the way you want. Maybe Venus direct means a fresh (and honest) new start for you both.
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Post by Juliet on Apr 20, 2009 6:27:28 GMT
Yes, 3rdhouse, whatever you decide. People make mistakes and sometimes people make very stupid mistakes. The future depends on whether you like him enough...
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Post by 3rdhousenorth on Apr 21, 2009 12:10:25 GMT
Well, I do kinda like him. He's also very nice to me. His Venus is exactly trine my Sun and wide conjunct my Mars. His Venus is also exactly square my Moon, and his Moon appears to be square my Venus - thought this might be a problem, but Steve and Jodie Forrest's Skymates book says "The good news is that any contact between Venus and Moon represents one of the deepest and most instinctive kinds of human bonds imaginable."
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Post by ariesmale on Apr 22, 2009 20:46:11 GMT
3rd house north. Contacts like any close contacts between Love or beauty sense and emotions can be pretty good in action.
From personal experience Venus contacts to moon is good. I usually am quite particular about Looks when it comes to love. AND it doesnt matter how someone looks when it comes to Venus -Moon conjunctions. Also Eros contacts.
For instance my brother who is 1 year older than me....and who the women think has a better looking face than me and they'd chase him all over the school ground when we were younger. Lets just say the women think he's really good looking. His Eros in Gemini..says he likes intelligent women..and prefers them. Boy does he. He married an extemely intelligent woman who women just cant believe he's with her...because as far as body and looks...she's very plump, and she isn't very attractive. He's happy she's happy. They've been together for years now. My brother disdains women who arent as intelligent as him. Like he'd chide some girlfriend who took spanish for 2 years in college and could only remember how to say "Oye Mujer como estas" and lacking the intelligence to form sentence in proper syntax. He dumped her heartlessly. She was attractive too.
Had a stormy relationship with a lady who's Venus conjuncted my moon and Saturn. She seemed to bring out the nurturing and also repressed feelings in me. I felt quite disarmed and pent up sometimes with her. Like not being able to really express myself with her. Lots of people shook their heads when they saw me and her together. I wouldn't have look at her twice or considered ever being with her.
Like for instance she'd cook a wonderful dinner and I had hardly gotten a chance to savor it much less taste it and she would become upset because I didnt compliment her enough YET. I explain "But Dearie...at least let me savor it first...and besides your Next"
Maybe it was the saturn thing that made me seem a bit repressed and standoffish to her...and thats was what drove her wild for me at first and wild at me afterwards.
shrug. Love is strange. She was quite heavy and redheaded with a fiery temper to match. I am athletic and golden tanned...we were quite opposites. I mainly cared about her because she was crippled and I felt her lonliness and she always could get to the core of my insecurities...and make it alright..but could also get me with sharp barbs.
She was a friend of a friend. I'd help her sometimes...she'd ask me to help her. She said the right words. "give me a chance to love you." I did. I gave her that at least. Theres no way I wouldve if not for the Venus conjunct my moon-saturn. I didnt find her astrological data til later. Cause there was a certain comfort level with her.
Its a pity her bad temper and her bitterness from past relationships and her controlling nature finally drove me away.
I would tell her "I dont seek to change you. It isnt fair...here I am all golden tanned, muscular and athletic and you love showing me off to your female friends...and I've never asked you to reduce like 100lbs....never insisted in changing her. I told her you are what you are....and I am what I am. Why cant you just let it be?
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Post by Juliet on May 1, 2009 22:57:39 GMT
A turn around story... here it is... You might remember the post about my best friend who kissed her ex after twelve years of unrequited loves. Well, it has ended between them a week ago, a few days after Venus turned retrograde. He's back to his addiction, his priority... I do hope this experience will change something in her, so she will learn to really accept hersélf.
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Post by ariesmale on May 2, 2009 20:16:04 GMT
Venus retrograde has effected me only in my dream life. Had a couple of dreams about being back together with an old girlfriend.
She is probably missing me cause seems like she starts showing up in my dreams. (I do have a psychic talent at times PLUTO conjunct Psyche in my natal chart) Of course I will resist any efforts at reconciliation as I already gave her enough chances and she was disloyal to me. That forever soils and makes her unacceptable to me hence forth. She can promise the moon, and swear on a stack of bibles....it wont do her any good. I have a mercury in Taurus and once I make up my mind about someone....it's a long lasting permanent decision. My personal philosophy is that given time, things work themselves out for the better or the worse. So then to wait and see when it comes to people.
Although on the positive side my son's mom (he's 21 now) has been friendlier and emotionally needy (wanting hugs, etc) Thats about the only blip on the screen of life that I see from Venus retrograde. No old flames or old heartbreaks to rehash. They have since been played out. They are so yesterdays news. Like last years cherry blossoms that faded and dropped to the ground swept away by the rain, the street sweepers, faded into dust somewhere. Only this years cherry blossoms matter to me.
No Time is better than now.
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