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Post by jk on Nov 1, 2006 11:27:06 GMT
.... with a sprinkling of Moon dust.  I was interested to observe the effetcs of a double conjunction here... or could that be a triple... and i thought that this would be a good place to share them. During the Week that Eros conjuncted b/f's natal Juno he also had Juno moving towards a conjunction to his natal Eros, at the same time the Moon was moving over them both. The evening after the Moon shone it's light over his natal Juno and conjucted Eros he came to me and said that the previous night he had experienced a sudden moment of enlightenment (his very words) and realised that i was the person that he wanted to be with, that he didn't know what he had been dragging his heels about, he loved me, wanted us to move in together in the new year and start trying for a baby as soon as possible. All this from a Libran who in usual circumstances takes time and care when considering his next step before coming to a final and firm decision. It's also interesting to point out that this man knows nothing of Astrology so his not influenced by possible preconceptions of transists. It will be interesting to see how things go as both these asteroids move through Libra over his personal planets and Uranus and opposite my personal planets. I have a sense it won't all be plain sailing, there will be need for a lot of adjustment and i don't know how easy Eros will take to being sat down to talk through the practicalities. I wonder if anyone has experienced or heard of any other or similar "epiphany" with such a transit? P.S. For my part, i should say, I was pretty gobsmacked but am v happy. ;D ;D |
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Post by 3rdhousenorth on Nov 1, 2006 11:56:07 GMT
Wow, jk, that's fabulous! What a great surprise! I know about how long it takes Librans to make a decision like that - it does sound like he was ready and Juno, Eros and the Moon worked their magic. It sounds like Juno and Eros moving through Libra should be good - opposite your personal planets, and in Libra, is all about 'the partner' and it sounds like the partner is ready for partnership!
3HN
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Post by gemstar on Nov 1, 2006 12:27:57 GMT
Thank you for sharing jk! I would be curious to view the other transits to his chart as well!
Hugs-
GemStar
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Post by samina on Nov 1, 2006 19:14:29 GMT
Wow, jk -- that's very powerful, indeed! And the simultaneously transits describe what happened so well. Am curious about something... on November 9, transiting Eros & Juno will be conjunct at 06Libra10. Where will this be falling in his chart (and yours?) Incidentally, it happens that's right on my 06Libra31 ASC. Hey, and Venus will be conjunct my natal Juno at the same time. Hmmm... I'm liking the sound of that one.  Samina |
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Post by gemstar on Nov 1, 2006 21:08:58 GMT
Hey Samina....CIRCLE that day honey!!!!! Sounds like you have all the right moves coming November 9th!!
Hugs-
GemStar
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Post by samina on Nov 2, 2006 15:16:20 GMT
LOL It *does* look good. But you know how these things more often than not manifest with such subtlety. Eros & Juno together seems like a passionate match made in heaven, tho... witness jk's bf's sudden romantic epiphany. Curious if anyone else has had those kinds of turnarounds when Eros & Juno merge... Anyone? Sami |
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Post by jk on Nov 3, 2006 14:05:14 GMT
Hey Gem, Here's his chart and transits... There is no birth time so asc not real. Another astrologer has pointed out that the Saturn in Leo recently gone over the SN is prompt for thinking about children and it has been quite a year for it for him. Deciding he wanted one, maybe in the future, deciding to finish with me 'cos he wasn't ready and i am older and then deciding he wanted to be with me anyway regardless and finally deciding he's ready now....Saturn squaring his Moon too. It makes him sound quite dithery but he isn't, i think neptune hanging round his Mars NN has been a little distracting for him. And Juno Eros will be trining them soon at 16 deg - and my Eros too, also 16 deg Aqua. That Eros and Juno going over his Libran stellium will be interesting., and opp my Aries stellium too.  |
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Post by samina on Nov 3, 2006 14:14:19 GMT
Hey interesting, jk... after Juno & Eros conjunct on the 9th the next thing they'll hit is his natal Eros in Libra. And then Merc, Sun, Uranus, and Venus...?
Wow, he's definitely having his drive toward a one-on-one relationship triggered right now. I wonder what house this is activating. No way to delve more deeply into discovering his birth time???
Samina
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Post by jk on Nov 3, 2006 14:24:54 GMT
Ooooh, don't i just wish i knew!!!.... It's not that he won't share, but he can't really remember and hasn't got round to asking his Mum, he doesn't see his parents a great deal and it never really comes up in conversation, astrology is a touchy subject for a lot of people. Not between him and me mind but i don't think he's that moved to go out of his way to ask his mum and I can't keep harping on about it .
He was pretty impressed with some of the things i said about current Neptune on his mars, agreeing with it all. And was quite surprised when i told him about the possible turn around i would face with current Uranus transists only to see a lot of what i touched was indeed happeneing - he was visibly taken aback.
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Post by gemstar on Nov 3, 2006 15:48:55 GMT
Hello jk-Thanks for posting his chart. He also has had to deal with tr Saturn opposing his natal Mars...that can be a challenge. While it is difficult to know exactly where his Moon degree is (give or take 10-12 degrees), I have always felt any Saturn-Moon transit in a wide orb....however, I am Cancer Moon and senstive!! : ) Neptune is past his NNode and the confusion he has felt over the past few years is understandable....with tr Neptune conjuncting his n Mars, certainly there has been a feeling of uncertainly as to which direction to GO!! Where to take cation...which is the BEST way to go....and further changing of mind! He will have Pluto sq Pluto coming up in orb next year....that is always a time of change! The change will be more noticable in the houses which are being affected. Currently, he has tr Saturn sextiling his n Venus....perhaps looking for grounding in his Love life.....which might be a bit difficult for him with his possible n Venus quincunnx n Moon. Maybe he struggles with a balance emotionally of individualism vs. coupledom. In synastry, sometimes the other person's transits can affect us...so I would look at your own transit chart to see what influences you are experiencing as well!! Hugs- GemStar PS-All he has to do is call his mother...ask about the birthtime...if he is impressed with your iinformation so far, mention it would be most helpful to know his time (For Moon and ASC purposes)....when you feel that he might be cool about being reminded. Mostly, I ask the person to call right then and there if we are hanging out chatting...and usually, the person complies because they are sooo intrigued by the astro!! Good Luck! |
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Post by samina on Nov 6, 2006 15:06:31 GMT
Say, jk... I just realized that the last new Moon (on Oct 22) and all the subsequent conjunctions around 0/1Scorpio occurred opposite his 7th-house Vertex!
When did his turnaround occur???
Samina
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Post by jk on Nov 7, 2006 12:02:14 GMT
It happened on the Thurs 19th Oct with Moon and Eros cnjnct his Juno.He told me about it and how he felt and what he wanted on the morning of the saturday 21st.
It was very strange. He had been quiet for some days... he had been working v hard (from v early in day till v late at night and doing weekends too) and got quite run down. He then went away for a weekend stag doo with the lads. He came back v tired and withdrawn and uncommunicative (knackered) so I retreated somewhat from him and mentally "battened down the hatches".
I was emotionally gearing myself up to end it all. It felt a bit like when he last got cold feet - far too much work followed by a need to blow off steam with his mates - leading to confusion as to how he could commit to me.
I felt that i should end it because if this is what he had decided then it could be a long, drawn out and painful wait for him to find the strength to tell me. But then i realised that i just simply did not want it to end so i was stabilising my emotions and stepping back to see what we had going on. It was the thursday eve when he came over and apologised for his recent grumpiness and told me that he wanted to make more time for me.
I was quite surprised when he finally did open up on the Saturday and it was the opposite of what i had been expecting to hear.
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Post by jk on Nov 7, 2006 12:22:10 GMT
And not only is Chiron on my Juno in the 5th (thanks for that thread Samina)
But now i see that Ceres is exact on my Eros which is also in the 5th, sextiling my Venus/Sun in Aries.
And is exact on his Mars/NN , Trining his Uranus/Sun
And as Kim says in the Eros in Libra pages
Say no more!
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Post by samina on Nov 7, 2006 16:47:38 GMT
It happened on the Thurs 19th Oct ...He told me about it and how he felt and what he wanted on the morning of the saturday 21st.
Seems tied to the New Moon on his Anti-Vertex, as well. I associate the Anti-Vertex with turning points in relationships. Huh. Cool.
And not only is Chiron on my Juno in the 5th...But now i see that Ceres is exact on my Eros which is also in the 5th, sextiling my Venus/Sun in Aries.
Wow, that seems like some very dynamic creative energy, jk! How do you find that all expressing itself in your life? (beside the young men -- LOL)
Sami
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Post by jk on Nov 9, 2006 10:48:06 GMT
Wow, that seems like some very dynamic creative energy, jk! How do you find that all expressing itself in your life? (beside the young men -- LOL) Sami Ha Ha, I have to say that these days it's young MAN not young MEN... . i'm settling down again. I have an urge to paint again but am holding back with excuse i don't have time. I'm not very good i just want to splash but feel reticent as b/f is an artist (potter) but doesnt find the time himself  . Have stopped writing but that always comes and goes. Neptune has just left my 5th and is squaring my Neptune in 3rd - isn't helping much there. Well i guess the baby plans and discussions are the big turn around with regard to 5th house. I never, ever expected to meet and have a realtionship with someone so much younger and childless, and never expected to be in a postion where such a man would want to settle down with me and plan for a child. After leaving my ex -when my son was 7 and i was 39. - I had to accept that my family days where over. I always wanted a bigger family but it never happened. I used to see my brother and his family walking past my flat and had to work hard to quell the sadness and sense of loss that i felt. Loss of something i never had but always assumed i would. Scary as it may be... and i am apprehensive of course. It's not so much "been there done that" but "been there, blown it" and i don't want to make the same mistake. There is one important thing that keeps coming to the surface now - I have always felt that there is somebody missing. Although i have never miscarried or had a termination (did take the morning after pill once) for years i have felt acutely aware that somebody hadn't quite made it here to be with me. This was the loss that i worked hard to reconcile. It feels that maybe i do have the chance to try again. Maybe that missing soul will return. Does that make sense? Maybe that's what Chiron is up to! Getting pregnant now is going to be harder and may be thwart with difficulties. Maybe this soul has been waiting till i was ready. I did a hororay, it looked interesting, though i can't read them very well but Moon was exactly opposite Pluto and that has concerned me.... Am curious about something... on November 9, transiting Eros & Juno will be conjunct at 06Libra10. Where will this be falling in his chart (and yours?) Incidentally, it happens that's right on my 06Libra31 ASC. Hey, and Venus will be conjunct my natal Juno at the same time. Hmmm... I'm liking the sound of that one. Samina Today's the day Samina!! Do let us know how it goes!! The conjunction exactly sextils b/f's Ceres at 6 Leo and exactly trine his Saturn at 6 Gemini and closely sextile his Jupiter at 4 Sag and is 5 deg off his natal Eros which is conjnct his Merc/Sun/Uranus and opp his Chiron. |
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. Have stopped writing but that always comes and goes. Neptune has just left my 5th and is squaring my Neptune in 3rd - isn't helping much there.