black moon lillith in synastry

[leonn]

hello again to all on this fab site!

long time no here.... wonder if anyones interested to comment and share some knowledge of black moon lillith in synastry? it seems to have been very prominent in my recent love relationships... (well, the last two, both very short lived!) ive just met someone whose black moon lillith trines mine... hmmmm ..? i checked out the LOA section here as LOA is something ive been practising recently, ive been asking for a passionate relationship where there is much mutual adoration...(amongst other things!!) i really dont know how to begin to consider this trine (and the guy in question is out the country for a few weeks so i wont see him for a while to 'feel' how it is between us).

his black moon lillith is conjunct his juno in cap in his 9th. (glibly put, does this mean he'll get what he 'wants' from a partner as well as what he 'needs' all in one woman?) they sit in my 1st, trining my 8th bml.

my bml is in virgo conjunct my pluto (which is opposite my sun) in my 8th, trining his.....

power of course has been a big issue for me in relationships, (feels like its my lifes work so far!) i am hoping for a guy who is as equally as resolved (whatever that might mean!)

main question: are we likely to adore each other and feel easy about exploring our repressed stuff?
or, kill each other?!! im sure there are shades of grey inbetween but would appreciate any pointers.

hope my burbling has illucidated some context, sorry if ive confused with too much info...

thank you so much, best to all for twenty ten, Leonn.

[ariesmoon]

Hi don't have much knowledge on this, but know a man who does - Tom Jacobs. He writes on here sometimes and has his own site, www.tdjacobs.com and he does a specific report on True Black Moon Lilith - amazing, thought-provoking stuff. Do have a look!

[leonn]

thanks for that ariesmoon. just had a peek, looks great - tho costly! i dont mean expensive i just mean i havent got any money at the moment... thanks anyways!

[Aphrodite]

Leonn, have you tried the excellent search engine on this site? Try the search with both Lilith and Lillith. Go to the search page and enter your search term. Scroll down to the "Posted within the last:" block and change 7 days to at least 2500 days. Change the maximum results box below that from 10 to at least 1000. Run your search.

I got 280 posts for lilith and 16 more for lillith.

These are individual posts. Right-click on the subject line and open the thread in a new window or tab. That way you can read the entire thread from start to finish. Feel free to bump a thread for discussion.

[ariesmoon]

Hi Leonn, Tom has also written articles and blogs on his site so you can search for those too. There's a wealth of stuff out there!

[ariesmoon and aphrodite]

thanks ! no i hadnt known how to do that search but now i do. its great, but sooo many contributions! ive been sat here 2 hours and still not had breakfast.... lots of info for me to glean about bml generally, but i suppose i was hoping for more specifics on the actual TRINING of our bml's.... im gonna check out the tom jacobs articles - after breakfast! i appreciate your guidance guys, cheers.

thanks again, leonn

[Aphrodite]

Hey I got double billing with Ariesmoon! How cool is that? :-)

[leonn]

oops - sorry! such a teknafobe....

[Aphrodite]

Why sorry? I was amused and delighted! :-)

[leonn]

oh good! well i probably wouldnt be sorry if id integrated my bml a little more ! and that is precisely what i intend to do, i can really feel her call, well, not a call - more of a...a.... a... cant think of best description of how it feels, its not 'luring me' - too gentle; its not 'beckoning' - similar; but more gravelly, soft growlly, groary, grrrry "get ere girrrl" sorta thang! hm.. ah well ya get ma drift!

[lex]

My "twinsoul" had BML..exactly conj my Neptun in H1...one explanation about the extreme tensions....and to release those feelings...huh!!!...for sure it would be "dangerous"...but sometimes a BML close to Neptun just means a hot night;)..as i experienced with a friend that i had for 20 years.....that suddenly "felt" for me....a big surprise.....

lex

[tom]

Hi Leonn- That coming up with a word for what Lilith is doing is tough definitely means she's active!
There's that visceral bubbling up (or sometimes boiling up) that we have to honor. Just knowing that we do.

When I feel that part of me, it's the part that remembers my animal nature, or isn't disconnected from visceral experience - hasn't forgotten that I'm part of nature. In Lilith times, feeling and doing trumps thinking and naming.

Thanks, Ariesmoon, for the plug!

[ariesmoon]

You're welcome Tom!

I'm finding Lilith is "bubbling up" when I'm being creative, either with my painting, or at pottery (true BML trine Mars in Taurus). Wanting to paint and sculpt things that others might find disturbing or unsettling. I've recently made a figurine of the Venus of Willendorf, and she's definitely unnerved people! I love it!